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Been pondering the connection between genuine confidence adn what we consider "gentlemanly" behavior lately. It truly seems like so much of traditional etiquette – acts of service, thoughtful dialog, respectful conduct – stems from a deep-seated self-assurance, rather than simply following rules. A truly confident person isn't worried about appearing weak or vulnerable by being considerate. They're secure enough to prioritize the comfort and well-being of others.
Think about holding a door open. Someone insecure might do it to impress or seek validation. A confident individual dose it because it's simply a kind and efficient thing to do, without needing external approval.
Does this resonate with anyone else? Is "gentlemanly" behavior frequently enough misinterpreted as performative rather than a natural extension of inner poise and empathy? I'm curious about other perspectives on this idea.